Thursday, December 1, 2011

Growth Means Learning to Ride the Rollercoaster Alone Sometimes

Last night during a speaking engagement at the MOCA House in Wooster,Ohio , I was asked to talk about a comment I made about "learning to ride the roller coaster alone".

I love that my life has been very much like a roller coaster! Wonderful highs and a couple of low lows to help me appreciate the highs.

The last 6 years have even introduced a few loop de loops . . . and I realized that some of the passengers (family, friends, loved ones) may need to get off and rest.

As part of my growth, I have challenged myself to take rides in the front seat, by myself, with my hands stretched into the air. . .

But it has taken quite a while to get here.

I started on a small hill, made sure there was a safety bar and kept the ride short! I had someone waiting for me at the end of the ride and then I rested before I tried again.

I am learning to respect that other people may be on their own roller coasters. There hill may be steeper and their ride longer. I try to reserve my riders for the coasters I am uncertain of.

In the past I have even asked people to take rides on coasters that haven't been built yet. (Ever worry about something that could happen???)

I am pleased that now I even check to see if the person riding with me is ready to ride. You wouldn't put a 2 year old child in a seat that was too big or that didn't have the appropriate safety harness. And I give them the option get off if they are not ready.

I also recognize that some days...I will choose the kiddy coaster with my best friend.

Whatever coaster you may be riding I encourage you to continue to reach a little higher and ride a little longer!

Living Well,
Kym

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